Women love temperamental men who do not hesitate to get to know each other, to give compliments on time, to be courteous, to gallantly look after, to persistently seek intimacy.
A rumor has come to us that we have almost stopped pestering the fair sex, complimenting, caring, flirting and provoking women to have sex. It is not that we don’t like girls, but that we began to talk less about this and get to know each other less.
Almost every woman traveling abroad can tell that foreign men are more active in the field of dating and dealing with the fair sex. Spaniards, Italians, Frenchmen, with feathers open, walk around the girls and rarely miss the opportunity to meet a girl, but not ours.
To say a compliment to the girl passing by was somehow not accepted and many are embarrassed, but why? The way of talking with a woman among foreigners is often built precisely on flirting, but in the territory of the former USSR our men began to look like stiff and cold English.
What the hell, I want to ask? Maybe it's time to become a man with burning eyes and seething blood? The temperament of people is different, but the fire in the chest, as in trousers, should burn, not smolder!
Like the guys, the girls also want a person who is going to take a breath. But, to be a really hot guy, you have to be a complete package.
Love is in the eye of the beholder. There are some people to whom we are simply attracted, and to others who do not inspire us with any feeling. Despite the fact that everyone has their own preferences, which makes love so mysterious, some characteristics make you more “hot” and attractive to girls.
The problem is that most guys turn to other guys to find out what's cool or hot instead of asking real judges. You would be surprised to find that most of the things that make you hot for us make you indestructible for other guys.
There is a reason why you see a hot girl with a “geek”. This is because he is just a geek for the other guys, because he is non-conformist. This is what women find the most attractive. A guy who is out of the ordinary, who doesn’t believe that you have to be “sport” in order to be a man, and who understands that caring about how you look is actually a good thing, includes us.
Hot Guy Guide: 20 Rules to Search
If you want to be hot in the eyes of girls, you need to follow certain “hot” rules. To get the girl of your dreams, you do not need to dream, you just need to do the following to make yourself attractive to us.
# 1 Wear hacks. It’s not that we don’t like your faded jeans, just sometimes we like something more formal. Wearing a good pair of khaki pants with slit pockets and tendon bootlegs is a turn for any girl.
# 2 Listen to the instrument. The good news is that it's never too late to learn how to play the guitar or fingers on ivory keys. Playing an instrument will make you hot, even if you really aren't.
# 3 Be a gentleman. There is nothing more attractive than a guy who respects women. Hot guys are those who open the doors for us, pull out a chair for us and order for us when we don’t know what to choose. No, chivalry is not dead, it is a very welcomed "hot" factor. [Read: Male Code - The 10 Most Important Gentleman Rules]
# 4 Give the sport a break. It does not make you healthy to find out all the latest sports statistics for a girl. You are much hotter when you remember her middle name or her favorite color.
# 5 Put on the cologne. You don't have to smell like an Abercrombie store, just a smear will make you. The key is to find something that is not a cliché or that everyone else wears. Go to the old school “Gray Flannel” or even “Old Spice”. There is a reason they have done this from generation to generation.
# 6 Beards are not hot. Beards can be thanks to duck commanders, but guys we don’t think they are hot. You might think that you are a rebel, letting your facial hair grow, but you are hiding any heat you may have. [Read: grow a beard or not - 10 tips to solve]
# 7 Humor. There is nothing hotter than a guy who quickly laughs to pull out of his sleeve or make any situation more exciting and carefree. If you are the one who can pull out humor, do it as soon as you can. Just make sure that you are actually funny, unsuccessful attempts are not hot. [Read: How to make a girl smile, laugh and, like you, instantly]
# 8 Trend is good, too fashionable too complicated. If there is something in style, everything is in order to be at the top of the trends, but if you are always decorated with the latest fashion, we know that you do too much. If you want to be hot, select the things that look good on you and leave the rest for the catwalk, please.
# 9 Sweating is good. sometimes. Nature really made a person smell good after training. I know that when you finish with the gym, you might think that this is a huge turn, but it is not. If, however, you do not take a shower for several hours, the smell becomes sour. We want the pheromones right after the workout, but we don’t want the sweat stink.
# 10 Metrosexual is not hot, being clean. We don’t want a guy who spends more time on himself and his things than we do, but it’s hot when you are a tidy person and you can clean your shit yourself. [Read: 15 things women always look for in a man before falling on him]
# 11 Be smart, not smart ass. Being smart is a huge turn. Girls are not quite like boys, we need something other than a beautiful face to find someone attractive. If a guy is hot, but every time he opens his mouth, all we hear is “spirit”, he can quickly lose his attractiveness. In addition, sarcasm has time and place. If you overdo it, you run the risk of being rude or arrogant. [Read: 9 subtle differences between confident and arrogant man]
# 12 A good haircut is a must. If you think that looking at the bed is what we are going to, think again. We don’t want Slick ", but it needs something more than Supercuts to get the bowl to turn us on. A guy who knows his style is the key to ardor.
# 13 Fitness is a must. The truth is that we test your body in the same way that you test ours. This does not mean that we all want meat, it means that we want you to make the most of your body with God. Being fit is a must for a hot appeal.
# 14 Happysmile. Sullen is not a magnet for us. We need a guy who is happy with who he is and can ride with him. There is nothing hotter and more attractive than a guy who can cut off nonsense and stop being cool enough to smile. [Read: 50 cute and sexy things, guys do what girls find compelling]
# 15 Confident. If you want to be hot, you need to stop watching the crowd. This is not the guy who fits into this if you know what I mean. Be that as it may, it's all you, hug him. Being yourself and having the confidence to go against the grain is the hottest trait you can have.
# 16 Strength comes in many forms. Being strong means something other than what you probably expect. Not all guys can lift three hundred pounds, but to be strong enough to hide from us is a must. Strength means that you let us feel safe and secure.
These signals can be achieved by simply applying your hand to our back while walking or watching to make sure you are there to help carry packages from the car. Being strong entails that you will be ready to protect us when we need it, both emotionally and physically. [Read: 23 things girls want guys to know about girl’s mind]
# 17 Hold your shit together. Having your crap means you show yourself together. We like the guy who looks like he can handle his watch on his shoes. A folded look is the time before you leave to make sure that your chances and goals are all taken care of. “I just showed up” looks like this yesterday, we want someone to put a little effort into themselves and take care of their appearance.
# 18 Eyes. In the eyes of a man there is something that is very attractive to a girl. If you look into her eyes, and she can deeply understand who you are, and this is the hottest quality a woman can find. Instead of trying to avoid her gaze, look directly at her. Brown, green or blue does not matter, it is not in color, it is in intensity and honesty that we can look at us in front and in the center. [Read: how to behave like a real man, how he really should be]
# 19 Your backside. If you have a sag, it will not be on the hot list. While you're getting better, do a couple extra squats. It is important that it is hot, you look as good as you.
# 20 Balance between conversation and listening. There is a perfect balance between the ability to speak and listen. Your girlfriend wants you to speak, but only when she wants to hear from you. Being open and communicative should be in the perfect balance between listening and showing interest in it. To be hot is to make us feel hot, make no mistake!
Being hot is not just what you were born with. Women are slightly different from men, but not completely.
At first we attract the body, hair and good looks, but in the end we find the overall package hot. This means that someone who has a back is strong enough to have heavy shoulders and interested enough in us to make us feel worthy and good about ourselves.
[Read: 25 traits in a man that make a man truly attractive to women]
So, now that you know the traits of a really hot guy, how many of these qualities do you see in yourself?
How to become a hot woman?
You must first love yourself. Accept your body as it is, with all the flaws and virtues. If you do not, then you cannot relax and tune in to a romantic wave. Do not be shy about cellulite and body fat, because despite the fact that your appearance is far from the reference, you are beautiful. As soon as you understand this, you will be able to transform, confidence and self-sufficiency will appear in your eyes.
You will find some tips on this topic in our article How to Become Attractive.
Develop your sensuality
To become hot, you need to develop your sensuality. There is an exercise for this: remove all clothing from yourself, slide your fingers over the skin. Pick up a pen, touch them with different parts of the body. How do you feel? If modesty, then you should overcome it. Do this exercise until you begin to get pleasure and excitement from the touch of the pen.
Learn all about your beauty from our article How to Become Beautiful.
You can become sexual only by liberation. This will help you dancing. Take striptease lessons, belly dancing. They will help you feel sexy and desirable, moreover, your body will become more flexible.
First, dance at home in private, and when you have confidence, show your sensual dance to the chosen one. Look at his reaction, for sure he will devour you with his eyes. After that, you can do whatever you want with him, he will fulfill your every whim.
Learn more about your sexuality in our article How to Become Sexual.